How to Survive Photographing Toddlers: Tips from a Utah Family Photographer
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Photographing toddlers is a unique adventure since it’s equal parts heartwarming and unpredictable. Whether you’re a first-time parent planning your family photography session or a seasoned pro braving yet another round of toddler chaos, this guide will help you prepare, laugh, and ultimately walk away with photos you’ll treasure forever.
Embrace the Chaos Because Toddlers Don’t Follow Scripts
Let’s start with some truth: toddlers are chaos gremlins wrapped in cuteness. They don’t care about your Pinterest board or matching outfits. They’re far too busy living their best little lives by exploring, giggling, running, and occasionally melting down in the grass.
And honestly? That’s what makes toddler sessions magical.
As a family photographer in Utah, I lean into the chaos. Rather than forcing stiff poses, I focus on real moments like a proud toddler showing off a dandelion or the way they cling to your leg for comfort. These candid snapshots tell your family’s story far better than any “say cheese” smile ever could.
Mini Family Session
Starting at $150
- Perfect for holiday cards!
- Session is 20 minutes
- 15 edited images
- $75 non-refundable deposit to book
- Remainder due the day before the session
- Travel fees applicable if 35+ miles from West Jordan
Family Session
Starting at $250
- 2-6 people
- Session typically lasts 60 minutes
- 50-100+ edited images
- $100 non-refundable deposit to book
- Remainder due the day before the session
- Travel fees applicable if 35+ miles from West Jordan
Extended Family Session
Starting at $375
- 7+ people
- $10/person additional after 15 people
- Session typically lasts 60-90 minutes
- 70-100+ edited images
- $100 non-refundable deposit to book
- Remainder due the day before the session
- Travel fees applicable if 35+ miles from West Jordan
Rule #1: Cardio (a.k.a. Keep Up!)
Photographing toddlers is not unlike surviving in a post-apocalyptic world. It’s fast-paced, unpredictable, and calls for quick reflexes. Toddlers are fast. One second they’re in your arms, the next they’re sprinting toward a puddle.
As your Utah photographer, I’ll be ready to run, crouch, roll, and capture the moment mid-motion. All you need to do is stay relaxed and laugh along.
Timing Is Everything (And Yes, Nap Time Matters)
Want your toddler to shine? The secret isn’t bribery, it’s timing.
The best time for a toddler photoshoot is when they’re:
- Well-rested
- Recently fed
- Not melting down from overstimulation
In Utah, golden hour (the hour before sunset) gives us dreamy light and tends to line up well with after-nap energy bursts. That said, I’m happy to adjust the schedule around your child’s best window. The goal? Happy toddlers and stress-free parents.
Your Toddler Photoshoot Survival Kit
You wouldn’t venture into the wild without supplies, and the same goes for photographing toddlers. Pack smart, and you’ll be ready for anything.
Toddler Photoshoot Essentials:
- Mess-free snacks (think puffs, fruit snacks, or dry cereal)
- Favorite toys or comfort items
- Wipes and tissues (because dirt happens)
- Backup outfit (bonus points if it coordinates)
- Bottle or sippy cup for hydration
Pro Tip: Tell me your toddler’s favorite song or show! I’m not above singing “Baby Shark” or doing a silly Peppa Pig voice if it means capturing that perfect grin.
Rule #2: Distraction Is Your Best Friend
Peek-a-boo, silly songs, bubbles, dancing… nothing is off the table when we’re photographing toddlers. Distraction isn’t just helpful, it’s a superpower.
I bring a mental toolbox of goofy noises, funny faces, and toddler-approved tricks to every session. Parents, your job? Be my teammate. The more relaxed and playful you are, the more your toddler will mirror your vibe.
Even if your toddler cries, runs away, or flops dramatically onto the grass, don’t stress. Some of the best photos come from those unplanned, real-life moments.
Rule #3: Lower Your Expectations (and Raise Your Joy)
I’ll say it louder for the people in the back: perfect is overrated.
Instead of aiming for a stiff, perfectly posed shot with everyone looking straight at the camera, focus on capturing your toddler as they are in this fleeting stage. The giggles, snuggles, runny nose, and wild curls are all part of your family’s story.
When you look back years from now, it’s these raw, honest images you’ll cherish most.
What Should Toddlers Wear to a Photoshoot?
Ah yes, the outfit dilemma. Here’s what works best:
- Soft, breathable fabrics (think cotton or linen)
- Neutral tones or soft pastels
- Avoid loud patterns, logos, or writing
- Comfort over everything. If it’s itchy or tight, they’ll let you know
BONUS TIP: Bring a backup outfit. Mud puddles, spit-ups, and snack stains happen.
Need help styling the whole family? Check out my Pinterest Board for extra inspiration. I’m happy to help my clients style their outfits during our session planning.
Make It Fun: How to Keep Toddlers Happy
Toddler sessions are basically playdates with a camera. Here’s how to keep the vibe joyful:
- Let them run, jump, twirl, or roll in the grass
- Snuggle, tickle, and play with your toddler during the shoot
- Bring music or toys they love
- Let go of control and embrace the moment
When your toddler is having fun, the smiles come naturally and the photos reflect the genuine connection your family shares.
Why Hire a Professional Utah Family Photographer for Toddlers?
Let’s be honest, toddlers are adorable, but photographing them can be a lot. That’s where I come in. Here’s what you get when you hire me:
- Patience and toddler-friendly energy
- A bag of tricks and backup plans
- A photographer who knows the best outdoor Utah photo locations for wild little spirits
- Beautiful, authentic family photos with no stress required
I’ve worked with every personality under the sun: shy toddlers, curious explorers, wild runners, snack-loving sitters, and I love them all. My job is to make your family photography session fun, meaningful, and completely stress-free.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my toddler cries the whole session?
It’s okay! We work around their mood. Sometimes just a break or snack is all they need. I always build in buffer time.
Can we include siblings or pets?
Absolutely. I’m all about real family life like including big brothers, baby sisters, or four-legged chaos-makers.
What if we don’t get any “perfect” smiling photos?
That’s the beauty of lifestyle photography. It’s not about perfection. It’s about connection, story, and genuine emotion.
Celebrate This Beautiful Chaos
Photographing toddlers is not for the faint of heart, but it’s one of the most rewarding, joy-filled parts of being a portrait photographer. Their curiosity, energy, and wonder are fleeting, which makes every captured moment feel like a treasure.
Whether you’re navigating tantrums or chasing giggles, know this: you’re doing great. And I’m here to help you document it all. Tears, toys, and tiny hugs included.
Ready to Book Your Toddler Session with a Utah Family Photographer?
Let’s turn the wild, wonderful world of toddlerhood into cherished memories and an enjoyable experience during your family pictures. Contact me today to schedule your session, get location suggestions, or ask for styling tips.
Let’s embrace the chaos and create something magical together.
